About This Episode
In this episode of The EnlightenDXB Podcast, healer and transformational coach Sanaiyah Gurnamal reveals the hidden subconscious patterns that shape our relationships and explains why so many people keep attracting the same partners, despite wanting something different. Drawing from her experience helping over 5,000 women, Sanaiyah breaks down the five most common relationship archetypes—from the People Pleaser and Commitment Phobe to the Caretaker, Runaway Bride, and Memory Chaser—and shares practical insights on how to identify and heal these unconscious patterns. We dive into everything from ageless wisdom, esoteric psychology, kundalini awakenings and its various stages, and the various traditional spiritual texts that hold some keys to sacred portals. Rita also speaks about a coming Golden Age on the precipice – a great awakening to realize Shambala – a collective shift of all of humanity into a more enlightened state that we are all walking towards. Don’t miss the beautiful meditation at the end, where Rita invokes Vajra Heruka (also often referred to as Vajrahrīḥa), a powerful deity in Vajrayana Buddhism that works to remove obstacles, destroy ignorance and ego and cut through delusion.
Special Guest Profile
I’m Sanaiyah! A love and relationship coach, speaker, and writer. I’m passionate about helping women make love their power move—in relationships, life, and business. I’ve lived through heartbreak, self-doubt, and the kind of patterns that keep repeating until you finally wake up and say, “I’m done.” For years, I gave my power away—searching for love, losing myself in it, and carrying the weight of old wounds into every relationship that followed. But it wasn’t just in love. I poured the same perfectionism into my career. I graduated from an Ivy League university, launched multiple businesses, earned advanced degrees and awards, checked every box… yet somehow, it still didn’t feel like enough. Because I was building my life from a place of proving, not from a place of belonging. But somewhere in the middle of all that mess, I realized something profound: The most important relationship I would ever have…was with myself.
